WHY WE EXIST
The New School of Sexuality is here to help you feel, connect, and grow.
We are devoted to bringing greater awareness, intimacy, and wellbeing into people’s lives — by teaching the emotional and embodied skills that make pleasure possible.
We believe sexuality deserves the same care and curiosity as any other area of learning.
Our aim is to help people understand their desires, communicate with honesty, and experience sex and relationships with more confidence, presence, and joy.
We do this through our evidence-based programs, workshops, talks, and community gatherings — all designed to support the lifelong work of becoming more sexually intelligent.
ABOUT US
We are a group of educators, therapists, and practitioners united by a simple belief: that sexual education can be both intelligent and human - rooted in science, but open to feeling.
As our name suggests, we are a school: a place of study, exploration, and growth. We bring together knowledge from psychology, neuroscience, somatic practice, and philosophy to help people reconnect with their bodies and each other.
Founded in 2025, The New School of Sexuality offers a modern, inclusive, and research-informed approach to sexual learning — one that goes far beyond technique, to address the emotional, relational, and spiritual dimensions of pleasure.
A NEW KIND OF MISSION
Our mission is to bring sexual education out of the margins and into the heart of modern life. To study sexuality is to study humanity: how we relate, how we love, and how we come alive.
Our Programs
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Before we can experience pleasure, we must understand the conditions that allow it to arise. This program explores how the nervous system, emotions, and early experiences shape our capacity for desire and connection. You’ll learn to recognise signals of safety and tension, develop grounding and relaxation skills, and reconnect with the body as a place of knowledge and trust.
By studying the science of arousal and the psychology of pleasure, this course lays the groundwork for a new relationship to yourself. One built on curiosity, compassion, and embodied awareness.
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Pleasure deepens when we learn to inhabit the body fully. This program is a practice in embodied communication: how to sense, touch, and respond with awareness. Through guided exercises and gentle exploration, you’ll cultivate sensitivity to your own sensations and get to know, and learn to express, your desires and boundaries clearly.
We combine somatic techniques with psychological insight to help you experience pleasure as a form of mindfulness — a way of being present, alive, and connected.
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Good sex is not only about physical. Apart from practical tools, such as pleasure anatomy, erotic massage foundations, and genital mapping, this program also explores the relational side of sexuality: empathy, honesty, and vulnerability.
You’ll learn why we don’t ask for what we want, and what we do instead. You’ll learn communication tools for expressing needs and navigating difference, alongside research-based insights into desire, attachment, and intimacy. The aim is to help you create relationships where sex becomes a dialogue — alive, safe, and emotionally attuned.
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This program is designed for those who wish to recover a sense of trust in their bodies, rebuild intimacy after trauma or dysfunction, or simply find steadiness amid emotional or relational difficulty.
Through guided reflection, somatic exercises, conversation, and evidence backed tools, participants learn to map their own resources for self-support - physical, emotional, metaphysical, and environmental.